A FREE QUIZ FROM SCARLET HOUSE

Are you truly showing up for the moments that matter?

Take this quick quiz to discover where your everyday actions match your intentions and the one change to make today that would make the biggest difference.

5 minutes only and all answers stay private.

START THE QUIZ

The Moments That Matter Never Announce Themselves

✦ A guest is running 15 minutes late while the bread basket is sitting in front of you.

✦ BZZ. Your phone buzzes halfway through coffee with a friend.

They don’t feel like a big occasion while you’re in it … yet these are the moments people remember about you.

“Intention tells us who we want to be. Behavior shows people who we are becoming.”

You know exactly how you want to show up in moments like these. This quiz shows where your actions and your intentions already tell the same story.

Discover What Your Everyday Actions
Say About You

When you finish, you’ll see a personal results page built from your own answers. You’ll know what to keep doing, and exactly where to start.

Reveal how you really show up

Find out whether you’re Stepping In, Showing Up or Setting the Standard, and what your result says about the mark you leave.

Discover where you already shine

Get the moments where your actions reflect the consideration you care about so you can keep doing them on purpose.

Explore your Try It challenge for the week

Pinpoint the moment where a small change would make the biggest difference, with one simple action to practice.

SEE HOW I SHOW UP

FOUR AREAS · TWELVE QUESTIONS

From the Dinner Table to Your Next Flight

The quiz walks you through moments you already know well, grouped into four areas. There are no right answers here, only the honest ones.

Conversation & Connection

Discover how you make people feel welcome, from the first hello to the flow of the conversation.

Respect & Consideration

See how you honor the people across the table, even when the moment tests your patience.

Digital Manners

Decide where your phone lives when you sit down and what to do with sound in a shared space.

Travel & Public-Space Moments

Choose how you carry a conversation in the places people come to relax and in other spaces.

SEE HOW I SHOW UP

People Around You Are Learning From You

Everyone at your table, especially the young people and growing leaders in your life, learn from watching how you show up.

That’s why this quiz starts with you.

Once you have your results, share them with your family and compare notes. At Scarlet House, kids and adults learn and families practice together. It all begins with one honest conversation.

FOUNDER OF SCARLET

Learn From Jacqueline Baker

I’m Jacqueline M. Baker, founder of Scarlet. 15 years ago I started teaching etiquette to teen girls in Detroit, because I wanted young people to feel confident in any room they walked into.

Before long, organizations I never expected started calling, from Deloitte and Nike to the Detroit Lions and the Department of Defense. They wanted their people to feel confident in the moments that matter.

Every time I taught young people, an adult in the back of the room would lean in and say they wanted to learn it too. Scarlet House is my answer to them, a family membership where every age keeps learning.

What People Say After Learning With Scarlet

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Working with Jacqueline and Scarlet over the past several years has been a pleasure. They have a unique ability to truly connect with our students and provide them with valuable leadership and etiquette skills.

Christa Funk

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I have been able to refresh my perspective on the possible, taking pause points to reflect and giving myself permission to be uncomfortable to level up.

Bella Field

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Since my Scarlet days, I’ve held on to the invaluable lessons learned, keeping them close to my heart and at the top of my resume.

Evette Booker

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I’m currently a senior in the Detroit Regional Dollars for Scholars Program. Since I attended the etiquette training, I felt prepared to come into this situation which made me feel more at ease. It was a good presentation that really stuck with me.

Uma Ludwig

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What Are People Learning From the Way You Show Up?

One moment doesn’t define you. The patterns you repeat, day after day, are what people remember. Take 5 minutes to see yours today and then start with one moment to change from tomorrow.